Gender Roles

Gender roles frustrated me as of late. Let me break it down for you like this.

When the alarm goes off, I get out of bed, throw my sheets and blankets back on the bed, turn on the coffee pot, make breakfast, pack lunch, get dressed, and read a devotional. (Female).

I then walk to work, stand on my feet all day playing with knives, fire, power tools, and moving objects that are up to fifty pounds in a job traditionally held by men like Escofier. (Male).

I come home, do my dishes, the laundry, clean my house, buy groceries and household items. I even garden, paint, and crochet. (Female).

But I also plan fun times for myself. I take myself to the movies, out to eat at a favorite restaurant, pursue friendships and education. Heck, I am paying all my bills with my own paycheck. (Male).

Dear people who complain about gender roles in other people's relationships, SHUT Up! At least they have someone to help do all this stuff. Gender roles are nothing more than a prescribed way of doing life passed down by society. But everyone gets to decide for themselves how they are going to live their lives now. So enjoy it.

As for me, all this switching between male and female roles has taught me that I am strong, brave, and able to do more than I previously believed. Hell yes, I still want a partner, but one in the true sense of the word. I want someone who appreciates both my strength and beauty and who is on my team. Because you know I am going to be googly eyed over his gorgeous self and strength. And I will be on his team too.

It doesn't matter who has what body part. What matters is how well we all fit together. Now get out there and play nice in the sandbox.

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